Never regret being a good person
Never regret being a good person, especially in situations where the other person didn’t reciprocate it back.
You behavior says everything about you and their behavior says everything about them. Why would you, my friend, want to be on the same wavelength as that? I know we’ve all gone through a situation where our kindness was taken advantage of or taken as weakness and when it’s all said and done we look back, analyze it and go “Why’d I do that shit, I should’ve known.” Then we start going down a timeline of events and begin regretting the big/small kind gestures we did, growing angry and sad in the process. But, if you really think about it, did you actually do anything wrong by being a good person? HELL NO!
So, why are you punishing yourself with such low vibrations? I know sometimes it’s hard to shake that feeling but in all you did what you had to do on your part, they didn’t. What you were actually looking for was: RECOGNITION. You were looking for someone to say “Thanks for doing this amazing thing for me” or “That was so nice what you did for me.’ Sometimes all we want is for that someone to notice we are trying but guys our good acts will go unnoticed occasionally and that’s what you need to be okay with.
Just like in “No one owes you shit honey” we talked about not doing things solely based off if you think it was the other way around, they’d do it for you. You have to genuinely want to do it, it has to come from the heart otherwise what are you really doing it for. Same thing applies, just because it goes unnoticed to them doesn’t mean someone else didn’t see it, just know the Universe is already in the works of rewarding you with forms of higher vibrations; Happiness, joy, peace.
Just remember your kindness is light and will always lead you out of the dark, it’s nothing to be regretful of.