Doing you in all your greatness

Now tell me are you doing you?

Like are you genuinely doing you and don't bullshit me either because I for one know that it is easier said than done. When you really sit and think, when have you ever really learnt about you and I'm not talking in terms of anatomy or your chemical makeup. I'm talking YOU, as in the divine being that separates you from being anyone else.

It would be entirely incorrect if I was to say that every human being expresses in their true nature, you know basically being 100% them. Some how "doing you" can be pretty fucking hard. In today's day and age Jessica doesn't want to be Jessica, Jessica wants to be like Renee and Cole is envious of Rayquan because his waves been swimming since the 8th grade and texturizers just ain't cutting it for him.

The problem is that we look for ourselves in everything else but within our own selves and one thing my parents always used to tell me growing up (especially my mum) is that "you never know how or what that person did to be where they are at." Every single person you meet is on their own journey and never know how far they've come on that journey - it could be decades, a year or even a couple of days.

Once you realize that you are the only you there could ever be, shit gets real like really real. So, when you're "doing you" affirm yourself, boost yourself you don't have to wait for someone to comment under your post screaming "Yaassss girl, you look good" - put some confidence in your in your strut. Know that you are you for a reason and if you didn't know, now you know because I just told you.

TIP: Every time you find yourself comparing or growing envious towards somebody - think of your own goals/dreams and how far you've come. If you don't any goals/dreams well you don't have time to be envious, you've got a lot of work to do my friend!